The babybook... sosad05: Dear You...Since April, I have been looking for the baby book that I scrapbooked. It was missing. You claimed you had no idea where it was at. For months and months...missing. Yesterday, daughter came home and said mommy I have a surprise...her babybook. I didnt want to look at it, but I did.
There we were....the perfect happy couple bringing there new baby home from the hospital. Pictures of you decorating the nursery. Pictures of you being funny at my baby shower. Pictures of your mom hugging me for the miracle we were about to bring into the world. Pictures of us...new parents. It was supposed to enhance out lives. The day an angel was born.
Now, I sit here...divorced and in tears. The perfect happy couple was a f*cking joke. The perfect happy couple was in debt. The wife had to worry about how we were going to pay the bills and feed this beautiful new infant because the new daddy was to busy spending his money on his own hobbies and women. The new mommy had to starve herself to make sure she lost all of her weight within just a couple of weeks...we both know why. I remember going out to lunch just a couple of weeks after the baby with my dad and I couldnt eat...he asked me what was wrong and I just started bawling. It wasnt what I expected. I thought we were a team. I didnt realize I was going to essentially be a single parent. You just wanted the illusion that we were the perfect family.
Now, I'm officially a single parent. Did you send the babybook home to hurt me or did OW want it our of HER house? I dont know what your motives were but even though it hurt...thankyou. I'm glad you returned it to me.
Re: The babybook... dre: Sosad I dont know what to say, but my eyes started watering.
I dont understand why he is so hard.
I know that it is not because of you though.
Like I heard someone say recently: if you didnt cause it, then you cant change it.
Hes not going to change for her either ok.
