Saw my ex husband yesterday,again melissa06: I saw my ex husband Charles yesterday and I am surprised he has changed big time.His parents had a talk with him and he knew he had to do changes.He finally admited that he is the father of my daughter,Angela.He quit smoking Mariquana,he did this behind my back and I caught him once doing this when we were married.He sought help on his own and has been clean for 3 monthes now.My ex husband realized that what he did was wrong and told me that I deserve the spousal support for the pain I went through that he caused(the cheating).I get $200.00 for spousal support.My ex did find out he did not get 3 of the 5 women he cheated on me with pregnant,they faked it and wanted to scare him.He does have a new girlfriend that he is dating for a month now,Samantha and she keeps him in line to prevent the mistakes he made.I did meet her,she is really nice and I get along with her.My ex husband did meet my new boyfriend Clint and that went very well.My ex wants visitation to see my son Jesse and daughter Angela at least first,I told him he has to prove it to me more.I told him I would think about it later on and he accepted that.
Re: Saw my ex husband yesterday,again nic1025: Well, it sounds like everything went as smoothly as possible!! That's good! Congrats and I hope it all remains civil and friendly!!
Re: Saw my ex husband yesterday,again melissa06: I told him to keep it up in a positive way.First things between my ex and my father have to be patched up.My father hates him for the cheating on me.I told my father that he has changed and is willing to patch things up.My son did see my ex husband since my ex is the father of my son and was happy to see him.Going to court for joint custody is later,my ex wants joint custody of the kids and he has proven it to me more just recently.I have talked to my attorney already about this and she told me just take it easy after giving me advice on this and this will go to court later on.
Re: Saw my ex husband yesterday,again smokin: its good its going in a positive way, but at the same time the demands seem way too much. the only people who need to get along is you, your ex and the kids. family has nothing to do with it...
i wouldnt keep him from the kids, even if it has to be adult supervised, but i also wouldnt worry about ur dad liking him. thats a little too extreme, and has no benefits to the kids.
good luck.
Re: Saw my ex husband yesterday,again melissa06: My ex did see my kids last night and I was there for supervision.My son was really happy to see him,I heard my son say "daddy" and my ex gave him a hug.Hopefully my ex and I go to court in two weeks for visitation and change the custody to joint custody.My ex wants to be in my son's and daughter's lives and has proven everything to me more.My ex told me when we go to court for joint custody and visitation in two weeks probally,he will bring in the papers proving he did get help on his own for the drug problem he had.
