3 monts ago today... ATLGIRL777: I moved out 3 months ago today and 1 month ago today our divorce was final. I feel like my world is crashing down and he is out living it up acting like nothing ever happened. I just don't understand after 7 years you just "stop being in love". I am so heartbroke! :'(
I am trying to move on and live my life...it's just so hard. I am so sad...I am sad for me and my little boy! I think my ex has really lost it and needs counseling. One day he tells me he misses me and loves me and will always love me and one day we might get back together. The next day he acts like he doesn't even want to talk. I am so confused! :-\
Re: 3 monts ago today... C-Note: OK. Sorry to hear of your situation. From your brief post and the fast pace of your divorce it seems like your feelings are just starting to settle in and your emotions are on a rollercoaster ride. That's common. 7 years and then poof you are waking up alone in your bed wondering and asking yourself endless questions. I know that feeling.
Time to start thinking about you, your child and your future. thinking about your Ex and his day to day is normal and I don't know how to stop that. I do recommend you start to force yourself to devote equal time to dwelling on your next moves in life, your job, child, and day to day issues. Change sucks, hurts, isn't welcomed, but it should not be feared. A person I hate the most in life once said "this isn't the worst thing in the world to cope with, at least your not dead".
I'm no expert and sorry for not having any eloquent words to ease this difficult time. I do know that you will feel better in time. Movig on isn't a choice, it's the only option left.
C-Note
Re: 3 monts ago today... barnbum_05: Like my dad told me. . . people fall in and out of love all the time.
barnbum
Re: 3 monts ago today... angry1: I know how you feel ATL. After being together 10 years my wife stopped loving me. It felt like the end of the world, but through this divorce I have surrounded myself with friends and family. Stay busy and try to focus on the future.
By the way, I also live in Atlanta. Always something going on in Atlanta, so get out there!!!
Re: 3 monts ago today... Life2.0: [quote author=barnbum_05 link=topic=26567.msg255641#msg255641 date=1142017039">
people fall in and out of love all the time.
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Thats what my MIL told me when I called to tell her about my wife's affair. Nice. I told that I made a mistake by calling and why in the world would I expect anything BETTER out of her. She's a bitter old woman.
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