Re: Question for Women - Secrets Spectrum: I want a guy who will speak in an interesting intelligent fashion when asked, then will shut up when prompted. He must be good in bed, have at least a 7" p*nis, be willing to forego sex completely at times while putting out ridiculously at other times. He must love my horse and my dog almost as much as he loves me, and know that they both stand higher on the totem pole than he does.
He must make alot of money, because I have expensive hobbies and student loans. And I'd prefer to work part-time at a self-owned stable that loses money while having 2 children (no more, no less).
He must be catholic, even though I'm not catholic. He must have muscles, but not too many. A little pooch is fine, so long as he can still crush beer cans with his abs.
And he needs to be able to bench press me.
Spectrum.
Re: Question for Women - Secrets jillieb44: LOL, Spectrum!! ;D
As for the Minivan -- they just scream Soccer Mom Suburbanite. ICK!! Why can't kids fit into a car? truck? SUV?? Mine do!!
Jillie
Re: Question for Women - Secrets C-Note: First of all I like my Mini Van. The seats fold back and it turns into a bed on wheels. I say women like confidence and attitude. That's it in a nutshell man. Money can get you laid and that's ok in the short run, but I find a element of fear, uncertainty, change and clarity of focus on what ever you set your mind to is what most women find attractive. Either your will dominates and she bends and goes along for the ride or her will dominates and you bend and hang on to her.
It's late and my sleeping pills maybe doing most of this writing so I'll shut up for now and read this over in the morning.
Re: Question for Women - Secrets BambiC: If we're being totally honest...yes, looks have a lot to do with it. Not that they have everything but especially if you meet a person out somewhere there has to be something about their initial look that interests you. For me it's height more than anything, I like tall guys, I'm sorry but that's a deal breaker for me. After that initial interest though there is a lot of wiggle room. I will admit I do have my 'list' that I started compiling once I knew I would be divorcing my husband. Do I think I'll get everything on my list...no, but at least it's a starting point. Right now a big thing would be to have a good secure job...doesn't have to have a "huge" income but at least making enough that I wouldn't have to pay for all the dates. So for your research project here's a short version of my list in no particular order:
Tall
Good Looking
Intelligent
Funny
Stable Job
Own's own house
Own's a car...doesn't have to be a great car
Friendly
My friends like him and vice versa (I am a girl and my girlfriends are more important than any guy)
Treats me well- respect, kindness, affection
I guess that's enough. ;D
BambiC
Re: Question for Women - Secrets 1hrtbroken+2: Being honest....when I'm looking at men these days, I'm really sizing them up for when it comes to sex. Can I see myself having sex with this man? Must be nicely groomed, mustaches with me are okay, no beards (goatees are okay - just don't hide the face). Must be taller than me (I'm 5'8), have a good stable job; must be family oriented but still a go getter. Sense of humor a big plusssss! Looks don't hurt they're a big plusss too! Good with kids, likes kids (but no sexual preditars!). Must treat women as ladies: open doors, hold umbrellas, etc...the whole shebang!
But mostly I'm sizing them up to see if in my eyes they would be compatible for when it comes down to having sex with him. The other stuff comes after in my mind that he's a yes. If no, then I just pass on him.
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