Re: Here's something to ponder - Girls & Guys nic1025: This is a really good point and my ex and I actually talked about it before we split. When we were dating it was fun and lighthearted and carefree. We had a *great* intimate life. There right before we got married it went downhill faaaast and he blamed it on stress and being busy and just to tired really. After we got married it was again stress and life getting in the way and then by that point I felt unwanted and so I wouldn't put out....and then found out he had been cheating the whole time
SO.........
Everyone is different but in our case it was stress....hard feelings, life and a cheater :(
Re: Here's something to ponder - Girls & Guys shockedandamazed: Could it be that once the guy gets married, they feel less inclined to be romantic therefore the woman feels more like a piece of ass to him resulting in disinterest? ??? ???
Re: Here's something to ponder - Girls & Guys isp34: I agree whole heartedly, Jetguy...I got it a lot more when not married than when I was...
She, on the other hand, was having the same amount
just with numerous other men >:( ;D :D
Here's something to ponder - Girls & Guys jetguy: So I've heard that men tend to get more sex not being married and either living with someone or steadily seeing someone. It appears that after men get married the women seem to reduce the frequency of sex for some reason. And apparently that is why some men hate to commit.
Open for discussion on why or why not this is true.
Re: Here's something to ponder - Girls & Guys Goddess: My first new post :P
I can only speak from my experience..but in this marriage..My husband was much more interested in sex before we were married. It seemed to take a drastic decline once we signed the marriage license ::)
My drive and want for it has never wavered..so maybe I'm not the norm. ???
Then again most would say that I am not normal anyway ;D
