just confused!!!!!!!!!! EssieDotCom: I husband of nine years, together for 10, has been out on the ship in the middle of the ocean for about a month now. The kids and i've lived away from him for over 6 months now. To make a long story short he has said he wants a legal seperaton, and we've been in and out of fighthing. Recenlty while on the ship he got into some trouble with work and was taken out of his shop, and I let my care and concern for him once again come through. In the last few times he's emailed me he's seem to have done a 360 degree turn and has called me twice, once yesterday and this morning. but both times he's said at the end of the conversation (I love you); he talks to me like we are once again the best of friends and that he's never wanted anything to happen to end our marriage. And now i"m so freakin confused. I was just starting to, once again, feel confident that I can move on with my life without him. And now all this stuff happens! I'm just so freaking confused right now!!!!!!!!!!!! :-\
Re: just confused!!!!!!!!!! RSGinATX: Hi EQWidow,
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I know it seems like a turnaround, but be careful. When someone has a history of taking someone for granted..its NOT an indicator of change that they suddenly become attentive again when they find themselves in a bad situation(that's actually part of the pattern). I hope i'm wrong..but..be careful.
Re: just confused!!!!!!!!!! EssieDotCom: thankz, i'm a little concerned a more so scared to death now. He did it again, called me to let me know he made it back to Sc safely and once again talked to me like i was his best friend once more, and at the end of the conversation said "I love you". I'm tempted to write him a letter and ask him whats going on; i'm so confused :'(
