Re: 5 years of love ... now gone 2be: I truly feel your pain, and we all question if there was something we could have done better. I am not in any way shape or form lessening what you are going through. Pain is pain. She broke your heart, I do not doubt.
But.
You are SO young... you have your entire life in front of you and there will be hundreds of women crawling over each other to be with you if you treat them half as good as you treated this woman. It is obvious that your girlfriend has no idea what she wants. She is young, immature and sees her own life ahead of her and doestn' want to commit. That sucks for you, but that is life.
Try your best.. pick yourself up and enjoy some time with yourself. This IS the best time of your life so enjoy it. A woman you will appreciate you will come around when you least expect it.
Best of luck to you...
Re: 5 years of love ... now gone Alliance_22: Thanks for all those kind words, they are all comforting and all makes sense to me. I guess i still need a lot of time, cause i just cant bare to take this ring off my finger, she was the one that put in on. I think i still love her a great deal. But trying to maintain N/C is near impossible. I wish i never neglected my friends when i entered this relationship. Damn when i think about it, i'd marry her in 2 years time too... *sigh* :'(
Re: 5 years of love ... now gone sadgirl951: I'm so sorry you are feeling sad. Don't worry, with time, you will see that it just wasn't meant to be. I know you are hurting right now but you have to stay strong. Heck, call up your friends you neglected and go out for a drink or something. I finally got the courage and told my friends, hey I can go out now. They gave me grief at first, lectures of I told you so, but they give me so much love and respect and watch out for me now, more than ever. Don't lose hope in life or in love. You will have life breathe in all around you and you will love again. You remember that sweetie. Please cheer up.
Lots n Lots n Lots of Hugs,
LONA
Re: 5 years of love ... now gone Alliance_22: Yea every day i feel more and more disappointment.. not sure why... i try so hard for NC but i just break it so easily.... darn it... i wish i had more ballz. I supposidly sent her some flowers today, when i called her, she didnt sound happy and said she didnt recieve nothing today... no i dont know if shes just hiding it or did that stupid site really forgot my order.....
So frustrating.. i cannot bring myself to stop loving her. I dont know what she's got that i love so much, i think i'm in love with her soul or something.
