Re: My deepest, darkest fears about you and us sheeps: Just remember, forgiviness is your deciding not to hold the past act against him in revenge or bitterness. It not to be used as a weapon in future fights, it's really not to be addressed by you unless he brings it up.
It is not, however, forgetfullness. You should not forget his bad choices and actions. You should however, watch. Forget his words. Watch his actions.
Forgiveness is so much better for you than for him in the long run anyway.
Re: My deepest, darkest fears about you and us Bree: But how do I get to that point???????? I WANT TO SO BADLY.
Re: My deepest, darkest fears about you and us fkunone: Bree - you will have so many emotions for quite awhile. I am in a torrent from anger, to happiness, to forgiveness, to hate, to love and they all wash together at times and I don't know what to do with myself. I find just swimming with them, getting them down on paper, concentrating on what I like today, the accomodations to myself.
Sure, the one we loved used to be here, the one we hoped for in that future is not going to be there, and now there's this void we need to fill. With ourselves. So make yourself "bigger" to fill that and you'll find yourself with yourself able to give yourself.
