Newbie here but are any of you the person that fell out of love, if so come in melinda143: Hi, I am a newbie here have been a lurker for a bit though :) Wondering if anyone was the "bad guy" or "bad lady" for falling out of love. This is what is happening with me and people just do not believe that this happens. (and no there is no one else in the picture) but tell me your story and where you are today, if this did happen in your marriage. Did you end up getting a divorce,etc? Thanks everyone
Melinda
Re: Newbie here but are any of you the person that fell out of love, if so come in freovir: i think i probably did "fall out of love" but that is not why my marriage ended.
have you tried counceling?
Re: Newbie here but are any of you the person that fell out of love, if so come in melinda143: Yes we tried, and were still not successful. Thanks :)
Re: Newbie here but are any of you the person that fell out of love, if so come in hudson: Hi melinda. So, did you have a vent or were just wanting to discuss the intricate workings of the dumper logic? If so, I recommend telling a bit of your story in the "tell your story" section and then posing any questions you may have there. Just a suggestion though.
My opinion on the whole "falling out of love" thing... Every married couple experiences it at some point in their marriage. However, you have two kinds of people. Those that honor the institution and commitment of marriage and those that don't.
Bummer that you fell out of love with your ex, more of a bummer that you dumped him because of it. You loved him at some point, the right thing to do, imo, would've been for you and he to work on rebuilding the love within the marriage. Whether it takes 10 months or 10 years, you made a lifelong commitment to your husband and marriage to stick in there through thick and thin, good times or bad, sickness and health.
If you can't adhere to the level of commitment that marriage requires, then I recommend not getting married again anytime soon.
Re: Newbie here but are any of you the person that fell out of love, if so come Psyner: Well put Blaz.... I agree 100%. Unfotunately, My wife is trying to decide if she was EVER "In Love" with me(she married young at 19.)
I pray everyday that she decides she is, or was. Its hard for me even think about the 3rd option.
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