Re: Newbie here but are any of you the person that fell out of love, if so come in sheeps: Blah, blah, blah, blah...
I'l say it again. Love is not a feeling. It is a decision. I do not get up and go to work everyday because "I am IN LOVE with my job". It is a decision I make because I get something out of it and I committed myself to do it.
Now, in America, marriages are like jobs, we can find new ones. That, however, will not help you when you have to explain yourself to the almighty.
Undoubtedly, my friend, you should not have married, but you did. Stand up and be a man. Live and learn to love your wife because you love yourself to respect the VOW you made. If you turn your back on your vows, you become nothing.
Randy
Re: Newbie here but are any of you the person that fell out of love, if so come in ga_sunshyne: Hijack for a moment please.....
SHEEPS- seems u offer a lot of info to others but as I see it....ure here for a reason as well.....what's ure story.....i can't seem to find any about u and ure situation but u are quick to offer criticism to others.
i for one----know what I did and did not do within my marriage....suggested counseling....went to church regularly...at his suggestin...many times he was to be there with us at the same time...but u know what he never showed...u know why...he chose to have an early unday morning rendezvous with his OW, his co-worker!! THe same woman that he then decided it was time to turn his life over to God with. He chose to seek out spiritual as well as psychological help after the fact....after he had destroyed me and our marriage in alll ways possible. Just the other day he sends me a message...i am on journey with the lord...wherever he leads me...whether it be back to you or not. Too late for me. He did not even try tomake the amends needed to work on us before filing for divorce.
Like I said in the other thread....Why should i after forgiving him, turn the other cheek to the things that he is doing now only to have him slap the other one????
Hijack over!!!
Sunshyne
Re: Newbie here but are any of you the person that fell out of love, if so come in freovir: [quote author=sheeps link=topic=27043.msg261513#msg261513 date=1143179789">
Blah, blah, blah, blah...
I'l say it again. Love is not a feeling. It is a decision. I do not get up and go to work everyday because "I am IN LOVE with my job". It is a decision I make because I get something out of it and I committed myself to do it.
Now, in America, marriages are like jobs, we can find new ones. That, however, will not help you when you have to explain yourself to the almighty.
Undoubtedly, my friend, you should not have married, but you did. Stand up and be a man. Live and learn to love your wife because you love yourself to respect the VOW you made. If you turn your back on your vows, you become nothing.
Randy
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i don't know about you, but i believe in THE FORGIVENESS OF SINS. . . apparently you stopped reading somewhere in the Old Testiment
Re: Newbie here but are any of you the person that fell out of love, if so come in nic1025: It brings true sadness to me to read this thread. I can't believe that someone would take it upon themselves to preach about the bible and the "almightly" when apparently they only read the parts they liked. What happened to the parts about only God can judge? There is ONE thing worse than someone backing out on there vows Randy and it's someone who uses something as pure and whole as the Bible to beat someone else in the head with -
This thread stinks alright.
Re: Newbie here but are any of you the person that fell out of love, if so come in ga_sunshyne: amen to that sista
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