Re: I really hurt you fkunone: Congratulations. Not many people have that insight. It's a first step. Forgive yourself. It's OK to feel the shame. I've encountered the same type of person not too long ago, but they can't see the wrong of their ways. And I'm not out to prove them wrong either, I just wish they could see it. In any case, hang in there, continue w/ your life. Don't feel like you can make up too much for it today, but maybe later.
I really hurt you toolboy: What I regret the most is the pain that I inflicted upon you,
during our mairrage I have abused the trust and bond that we once shared. I have said things to you that I cannot believe even came out of my mouth. I have talked down to you, I have called you names, I've accused you wrongfully. I have physically and mentally abused you. I have lied to you. I torn down your self-esteem and confidence with comments that were awful. The words "I'm Sorry" no longer have any meaning because they have been used so many times. I never set out to hurt you in the beginning, I don't know what changed it all. I blame myself for it. You deserve to be happy and confident. I took all of that from you little by little, day by day.
I would change that if I could, but you know that I won't change. I am what I am, an abusive man. You were happy once, kind, open in your heart, funloving, generous. I took all that and more from you, I just kept taking until I used you up.
Re: I really hurt you angelina: my husband was the same i wish he would have admitted it
Re: I really hurt you SayAnything89: hi, toolboy..
takes a MAN to admit what you just did, i appreciate your strength and courage. my husband could've written that to me. i will be leaving here 4/11/06 after 10.5 years of abuse, ridicule, control, alcoholism, susbstance abuse by/from him. i have nothing left to give...the "i'm sorry's" are fake on his part.
you can change if it's what you want...
thanks for sharing,
SA
Re: I really hurt you toolboy: I'm not feeling like much of a man right now. I feel shame.
