Re: I really hurt you angelina: thats all i ever wanted was for him to admit is fault and he said he did nothing wrong that i was the one to blame because i was alwasy angry and i said why was i angry in the end well because you gave up a long time ago you told me you would change and you did not. well it takes a man to own up and alitlle stupid boy no to well done toolboy
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Re: I really hurt you toolboy: I hope that one day you can forgive me for what I have done, but I really don,t expect that. I will live with the pain I caused you for the rest of my life. I don't think that it will ever diminish nor do I think that it should.
I do want to change so that I never inflict pain on anyone like I did on you
Re: I really hurt you SayAnything89: toolboy,
please don't feel shame...you showed such courage by posting this for the whole "world" to see....to me, that takes a huge amount of courage and strength. you put yourself out there...which says to me that you see the error of your ways. change comes slowly, but admitting it is the first step.
the one you hurt may never forgive you, and that is unfortunate...but you MUST forgive YOURSELF in order to heal. no one is perfect, we all have flaws...it's just a matter of how we handle those imperfections and flaws.
never forget the pain you caused...or history will repeat itself.....but LEARN from it...open your heart to it, search your soul for it's cause...
PM me if you'd ever like to chat... you have helped me immensely by replying to my posts...and i'll be here to help you if you need,
SA
Re: I really hurt you fkunone: Congratulations. Not many people have that insight. It's a first step. Forgive yourself. It's OK to feel the shame. I've encountered the same type of person not too long ago, but they can't see the wrong of their ways. And I'm not out to prove them wrong either, I just wish they could see it. In any case, hang in there, continue w/ your life. Don't feel like you can make up too much for it today, but maybe later.
Re: I really hurt you twine: tool boy, after reading your post i am wondering if you wrote that for me, i think that i am guilty of the same things u are, i never wanted to say mean things to my x wife but i did, i cussed her out, i called here a lier, i compleltly flattened her ego, then i got mad at her for cheating on me well i now relize why she did and no that its to late as we are now divorced but really hope i can learn from my mistakes, keep your chin up man i think that admitting to yourself what u did is a huge step.
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