Re: A bit of advice for a devistated man JNA: It's "those"...
Don't use my subject matter...
And I guess I'll post to this thread...
JNA
Horrible Advice...IMO
Re: A bit of advice for a devistated man gill7784: And, no... never any infidelity on my part, and I honestly believe that she has been faithful.
Re: A bit of advice for a devistated man JNA: [quote author=gill7784 link=topic=27086.msg261863#msg261863 date=1143264184">
And, no... never any infidelity on my part, and I honestly believe that she has been faithful.
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Let me read your post ok...
Give me a sec...
JNA
Re: A bit of advice for a devistated man JNA: As far as the her...
Don't listen to what they say...
Watch what they do...
Actions speak louder than words my friend...
For the rest...
She's having an "Affair" ok...
My guess is maybe she is in her 30's...May be wrong
Withdrawal...Don't send her anymore letters...Nothing...No text or anything
Make her feel as if she has something to lose ok...
Then you might be surprised how fast she returns
I'm sorry this has happened to you and know the hurt all to well...
Thing is though...If you "Chase" her you will lose...
Stay Strong
JNA
Let her come back to you by what I told you above...
Yeah you can look into you as C-Note stated
But ya know what...
We all could do that because none of us are "Perfect"
Re: A bit of advice for a devistated man HeartbrokenDingo: Gill,
Welcome to Ojar. Without knowing it, you have made the first step towards healing.
Take a deep breath, take a step back and just re-group. Get your thoughts together....as best you can. I'm surmising that right now your thoughts are off the meter. that's normal....just knowing that what you are feeling is normal is the first step.
Breathe. Don't do anything rash. Think very carefully before you make any major decisions.
Above all else, please know that you have support.....us....we've been there....we can truly say that we have been there.....
We know how you feel...... :'(
Keep posting and keep in mind that you will be okay....you have us....
{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}
Dingo
:'(
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