The affair has been for years?!?!?!?! BONILLAK: Joe,
This past week has been horrid. We have been living apart for 6 months this week and since you still weren't seeing or contacting the kids I finally decided to investigate to find out the truth of where you are and why you are staying away from your kids....well, the truth has come out. Someone got me her plate number, I looked into that, called your old boss, got in touch with her now exhusband, etc. This affair of the 2 of you has ruined 2 marriages and 7 kids! But what you probably don't know is that she cheated her whole 20 year marriage but always stayed with her husband now that their kids were older he threw her out. Do you honestly think she would leave her million dollar home, her maid, her lavish, wealthy life for someone who makes 35k a year!? She was just busted ofr the last time! She always cheated with people who had much less money than her. Her ex even was paying the rent for you two until I filled him in on you leaving us, etc. Wait until April 1st when no bills are paid for her and you both end up in the street. Her ex was trying to be decent to her until she got on her feet but the rule was no one living there and once she was involved no more help from him. Well I told him where you live, showed him the proof, etc and now let her and you squirm. He said she called him for food money last week which means he fed you too! Do you 2 think this whole thing was a big joke? She confessed to this affair last March, your ex boss told me she is the reason you lost that job and that was almost 2 yrs ago!!!! You always accused me of cheating, yet it was you! Whether its the right or wrong thing to do I did tell the kids. I sat them down and told the 2 that can understand exactly whats going on and why you don't see them, etc. I was no longer going to sugar coat and hide things from them to protect you. I would have kept things to myself if you have been being a Dad but you left that behind too. Her ex told me she has had 9 affairs over 20 yrs, ruined 4 marriages, etc. He put up with it because they had 4 kids quickly after getting married and the kids needed her but when this started and she confessed since the kids are older he gave her the final boot. He said she enjoys ruining marriages, always claims to be in love, etc but once the man divorces, can't give her all she wants she moves on....where will that leave you? It will leave you with no family here as your family is all spread out, no wife and children who want nothing to do with you. they feel like after these 6 months they don't even know you anymore. You don't even call them, where were you when Ashley needed stitches last weekend? You ignored our calls! You never going to be able to make up for lost time! I can't wait until this all bites you in the ass and you come crawling to the door....I will open the door but just to spit on you and slam it in your face. I can't believe you would be so damn dumb! She didn't want to leave her house and life for you...he threw her dumbass out! Her oldest son even said she was begging him(her ex) not to make her leave, etc. She has had affairs that have lasted years and still lived home...he just wised up. You will one day feel like a huge ass and I will have the last laugh. Don't forget...those who laugh last, laugh the hardest. I just feel the worst for all 7 kids lives that have been torn apart by plain stupidity!
Re: The affair has been for years?!?!?!?! sosad05: I am so sorry for you. It's bad enought to endure the pain of divorce but then to find out the person you were married too was full of deceit and lies. You didnt know him at all. My heart goes out to you and your children. The two of them are a couple of users!! >:(
<<<HUGS>>>
Re: The affair has been for years?!?!?!?! BONILLAK: Thanks...yes its sad to spend 17yrs with someone and really never know them.
