Re: HELP!! Any advice what to tell a 2 year old? clockwork: GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!
Let her have that anger, she deserves to vent just like we do. Let her do it, then sit down and talk to her, just like you did.
Honesty with these children regarding this is one of the hardest things we will ever do, but it what we have to do.
They are so much smarter than we sometimes give them credit for aren't they.
EX: If daddy doesn't want to live here anymore, why is his stuff here? LMAO!!!
Smart girl you've got there!
Keep us the good work and PM my anytime you need to!!!
Re: HELP!! Any advice what to tell a 2 year old? wendieann: Hi. Well, why don't you make a "Daddy Diary" for your children. Have them color pictures, etc... (THEM) with the only marks from you, maybe describing the picture... (cloud, car, doll) etc... and when they miss daddy, have them sit and "vent" or whatever on paper. Keep it in a separate journal for each of them... [color=red"> They have emotions and feelings too... and don't know how to express them...teach them.... [/color"> :) then, when they do see him, they can take it with them, or keep it... it's up to them. ;) IMHO, as they get older, it will teach them to deal with issues by writing them down. If you want, while they are, you do one similar. Write about things...
It will amaze you in time, how your feelings change, and so do your childrens.... ;)
