Re: Apologies. brokenbaby: No need to think harder. I know what I did wrong. I am working to change myself. I know I did my fair share and than some.
As far as the way things are now. I carried the blame for 11 years, for him hitting me. Insulting me. Screaming at me. Everything was my fault. I don't blame myself for that anymore. I did not make him hit me. I did not make him insult me, lie to me, scream at me...he left for the third time and this time...
I'm not sorry.
Re: Apologies. PickingUpThePieces: [quote author=brokenbaby link=topic=27519.msg267707#msg267707 date=1144480715">
No need to think harder. I know what I did wrong. I am working to change myself. I know I did my fair share and than some.
As far as the way things are now. I carried the blame for 11 years, for him hitting me. Insulting me. Screaming at me. Everything was my fault. I don't blame myself for that anymore. I did not make him hit me. I did not make him insult me, lie to me, scream at me...he left for the third time and this time...
I'm not sorry.
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Amen bb!! Good for you!
Re: Apologies. toolboy: PickinUpThePieces
Ditto
Re: Apologies. IlliniGirl: I think there is a difference in knowing what you did wrong and feeling sorry. You can know what you did wrong and learn from it, but you don't have to feel sorry.
I know what I did wrong in my marriage, but I WILL NEVER apologize to my ex.
He doesn't deserve to lick the dirt of the bottom of my shoes let alone hear me apologize. Yes I did wrong, but what he did wrong was worse.
Re: Apologies. wingnut: I'm not sorry either. What she did to the kids and I, she deserves to be drug through the mud and called every name in the book. She deserves to walk away with nothing. Not even pictures of our family.
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