crisis with a fiance with bipolar personality disorder jerk7815: [color=brown"> i was in a bad mood several days ago.
small things that my fiance (who has a bipolar) usually did didnt matter until that day. everytime he reads news on line while talking with me (about not-so-impt subjects) isnt an issue but i was making an issue out if it that day. we werent completely okay as we said goodbye for the night. the next day, i found out he was not able to sleep well cos of what happened that night. i apologized and expected things were going to be okay.
LAter that night, i received an email from him telling me that it would be better if we would communicate through email for a while. i corresponded through email but he doesnt return emails. last night was 4th night of not talking so i tried to call cos i was worried. he didnt answer but emailed me instead that he was allright and that was it. until now we havent talked yet.. over a very minor issue. i dont think that he is showing me a normal way of reacting to a fiancee's bad day.
i do wanna call him and force him to talk me but i dnt wanna appear pushy cos this move might just push him farther away. what is happening to him? unless he shows me he is quitting the engagement, is this a classical sign of a bipolar illness talking to me? does anyone know how to approach a person who doesnt respond to a relationship issue right away?
this is the first time he reacted this way to an issue or i may say this is the first time we have an issue that is not settled right away. it has been days.btw, if this is a sign of quitting the engagement, is this how a fiance with bipolar disorder quit an engagement? i need all the help you guys can give. thanks.[/color"> :(
