Re: I f-ckING HATE THIS sosad05: I agree with everyone. I had LOTS of support when it first happened. Now, a year later, I am cautious about what I say to people.
What???I'm not over it. What's wrong with me??.....People are so judgmental.
Ofcourse, Im not over it. It took 14 years, lots of memories, and 2 children to create. How can I be over it in one year?
Thank God for ojar. I truly love the warmness and acceptance I've found on this site. :)
Re: I f-ckING HATE THIS shockedandamazed: The site has been great - but it's no substitute for the real thing. I thought after 8 months I should be OK - but I'm not...I feel my confidence slipping away and all my insecurities returning.
I know it's just a dip in the road - but I get really angry at myself when I hit them.
Re: I f-ckING HATE THIS cc: Thanks EQwidowX2B ((Hugs back)) and everyone else...I just hate it...because I know now that I'm depressed, but I don't want to risk taking medication and it getting worst, and I don't want to spill my emotions to some stranger- I want a person who I know cares about me and who's been there through my life...but those people are apparently too busy...
Re: I f-ckING HATE THIS Bea: CC,
Sometimes you think you are talking to people, but are you telling them how you really feel? I'm asking this because I'm one of those people who pretend others listen to me, but most of the time I just expect them to assume I'm not doing well and I behave in weird ways. Sometimes it takes saying "I need help, dammit, give it to me!"
I'm sorry you feel like no one cares, but you know what? It usually is our little head playing games on us and when we really think about it, there are many people who care more than you can imagine and who are willing to listen. You just need to learn to ask for help.
I probably am not getting it like it is, but your post made me think about my own bad days and how much I just convince myself that there's no one around when all I have to do is say "HELP".
I hope it gets better. And we're here for you!
Re: I f-ckING HATE THIS Older Guy: Well said Bea ! just what i was thinking.
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CC,
Sometimes you think you are talking to people, but are you telling them how you really feel? I'm asking this because I'm one of those people who pretend others listen to me, but most of the time I just expect them to assume I'm not doing well and I behave in weird ways. Sometimes it takes saying "I need help, dammit, give it to me!"
I'm sorry you feel like no one cares, but you know what? It usually is our little head playing games on us and when we really think about it, there are many people who care more than you can imagine and who are willing to listen. You just need to learn to ask for help.
I probably am not getting it like it is, but your post made me think about my own bad days and how much I just convince myself that there's no one around when all I have to do is say "HELP".
I hope it gets better. And we're here for you!
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