OK - just need to vent about this...bear with me. shockedandamazed: So - if anyone has been keeping up with my posts - you all now I met a really great guy about 2.5 months ago - I think we were both taken aback by how soon we met eachother - we had great chemistry - great chats....we have been seeing eachother sporadically since we met.
Problem: I fell head over heels for this guy - he told me up front that he couldn't do another serious relationship (he is going through a divorce) - I still fell.....I noticed over the past few weeks that the length of time we would talk would be about 4-5 days of when I would break down and call him...he would always call back and we would set up another time to meet. Well, this time, I vowed not to call him because I was the 'caller' and he was the 'callee'...It's been 6 days and not a peep out of him.....I don't get it - he said he told his parents about me, his therapist, said he wanted me to meet his son...
Believe me - I saw the red flags, him going through a divorce, both of us so fresh out of our marriages, and then the not calling for 4-6 days (obviously indicative of his interest of me = not all that great)...and still...I fell....
Why the hell did I fall?? I KNEW all of the red flags....and stupid ass me dove right in....
I'm just going to let this one fade out - not going to call him - it wasn't the right time for either of us...but I can't get over why the hell I fell for him!! Was it out of desperation? I brought down some walls with him and now they are right back up.
Jesus Christ - I hate this shit!! Just mad at myself.....
Re: OK - just need to vent about this...bear with me. YieldToOncomingTraffic: The heart wants what the heart wants. Don't be angry with yourself.
Re: OK - just need to vent about this...bear with me. flyaway: SAA, I'm with yield on this one. Chalk it up to experience....and just like him, the feelings will fade too. It was fun while it lasted, and it gave you joy for a time.
You'll feel that joy again soon. Just make sure that it is with you all the time, and not dependant on what man is paying attention to you.
flyaway
Re: OK - just need to vent about this...bear with me. JNA: [quote author=shockedandamazed link=topic=27583.msg267880#msg267880 date=1144544512">
So - if anyone has been keeping up with my posts - you all now I met a really great guy about 2.5 months ago - I think we were both taken aback by how soon we met eachother - we had great chemistry - great chats....we have been seeing eachother sporadically since we met.
Problem: I fell head over heels for this guy - he told me up front that he couldn't do another serious relationship (he is going through a divorce) - I still fell.....I noticed over the past few weeks that the length of time we would talk would be about 4-5 days of when I would break down and call him...he would always call back and we would set up another time to meet. Well, this time, I vowed not to call him because I was the 'caller' and he was the 'callee'...It's been 6 days and not a peep out of him.....I don't get it - he said he told his parents about me, his therapist, said he wanted me to meet his son...
Believe me - I saw the red flags, him going through a divorce, both of us so fresh out of our marriages, and then the not calling for 4-6 days (obviously indicative of his interest of me = not all that great)...and still...I fell....
Why the hell did I fall?? I KNEW all of the red flags....and stupid ass me dove right in....
I'm just going to let this one fade out - not going to call him - it wasn't the right time for either of us...but I can't get over why the hell I fell for him!! Was it out of desperation? I brought down some walls with him and now they are right back up.
Jesus Christ - I hate this shit!! Just mad at myself.....
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Ever think he is sitting somewhere thinking the same thing you are...
You know all his friends are telling him "don't" call her...Let her call you Right
Give him a call and see ok...
JNA
As far as the rest...
You fell because you were "missing" something and he fills that void you want so badly to be filled
It is somewhat normal to want that void filled as no one wants to be alone...
Relax all is not lost yet
Re: OK - just need to vent about this...bear with me. shockedandamazed: jna - I appreciate the advice - but a guy will call if he is interested in a girl...I talked to him 12 days ago......no call from him in that time period.
If he wanted to call, he would.....can't chase him forever!
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