Game Radar... kev: so i have met this new girl...on other posts, she was referred to as FB, or friend b.
Anyway, FB...trying to figure her out, and i just dont know if i have the energy. Sweet girl, funny, fun to be around, pretty, beautiful eyes...and cynical and smartass as hell...good qualities if you ask me.
But...she is so hard to read! that is where the " i don't know if i have the energy " part comes in...i don't want to say that she is playing games, but then on the other hand, i don't want to deal for two seconds with anything that i think is a game! does that make sense?
should i be patient and take a little longer to decide what is games and what is not? I know this is a vague question, but does anyone else feel that way after the divorce, starting to see people, wanting to have things go further in some circumstances, but then being intolerant of any perceived bullshit?
Re: Game Radar... shockedandamazed: Ummm...yes!! Right there with you - I made it no secret that I liked PG (you know who this is kev!) and I guess that is where I f'ed up...because that is when all the games came into play...
Yep - tired of all the bs - and this was only the first go at it! It takes two to tango....and now I am dancing alone!
I don't have the energy to try and figure it all out either...I want someone else to do all the work for once - I am so tired!
Don't what to tell you - if you see there is something there, then hang out for a while and see how things progress...if it takes to much work, then move on....it shouldn't be this much work to get to know someone.
Re: Game Radar... 2be: I don't put up with game playing at all. Relationships are difficult enough as they are... but when someone is purposely effing with your head, it's not right. I don't blame you for not wanting to deal. Do you two communicate well? Ask her flat out... Say you can't deal with games and see where she is at.
Re: Game Radar... JNA: Yeah it makes sense buddy...
I met a girl with "Incredible" eyes...Spirit and Body one time
She put me through more "Hell" then Satan himself could...
Two words ok
Walk Away...
IMO
JNA
She had my heart so I played...
I will not play games with a chick now for one minute...
I will send you on your merry way right now
Re: Game Radar... kev: guys, you give good advice. I guess where i am at right now, is that i have moved on from the marriage, i just am super sensitive to anything that I think is BS...just don't want to deal with it.
FB is a great girl, i am just not willing right now to do the "dance". straight up and honest is what i am looking for. I told her that i am not looking to be in a "relationship" right now, but i wanted to see where things went...and next thing you know, i am in a conversation where it is feeling like a game to me. she said the same thing, she just wanted to see where things are going, but then all of the sudden i am in a situation that seems too "clingy". Hell i don't know. Maybe that is all there is.
Maybe i am being to overly "protective" of myself at this point, but...if i don't protect myself, who is going to?
You know, the one person who I am straight up and honest with, and is with me...is never going to be the person I end up with, and that is too bad. but she and i have such a good relationship as friends, don't need something like romance to f that up. I did it once and put a ring on her finger...and look where that ended up.
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