Re: Game Radar... 2be: I don't put up with game playing at all. Relationships are difficult enough as they are... but when someone is purposely effing with your head, it's not right. I don't blame you for not wanting to deal. Do you two communicate well? Ask her flat out... Say you can't deal with games and see where she is at.
Re: Game Radar... kev: No dre, this is the friend that I was to be hooked up with.
after doing alot of thinking about what everybody has replied...maybe i am the one that is "playing" a game. I guess it is pretty crappy to say "i don't want to be in a relationship, but lets see where this goes". that is a real vague statement. Or maybe not so vague, just stupid.
Truth is, yes, I want to be in a relationship. but, i also don't want to rush into anything.
I don't think she is trying to manipulate or torture me at all, and if she was after money...ha ha ha, guess what...she has to pay off my overdraft charges first! :D
I know that she has had her share of disappointments too, and that would be a reason that i don't want to call it a "relationship" until either one of us knows that is what we want..i don't want it to be a rebound for either one of us.
Re: Game Radar... JNA: Yeah it makes sense buddy...
I met a girl with "Incredible" eyes...Spirit and Body one time
She put me through more "Hell" then Satan himself could...
Two words ok
Walk Away...
IMO
JNA
She had my heart so I played...
I will not play games with a chick now for one minute...
I will send you on your merry way right now
Game Radar... kev: so i have met this new girl...on other posts, she was referred to as FB, or friend b.
Anyway, FB...trying to figure her out, and i just dont know if i have the energy. Sweet girl, funny, fun to be around, pretty, beautiful eyes...and cynical and smartass as hell...good qualities if you ask me.
But...she is so hard to read! that is where the " i don't know if i have the energy " part comes in...i don't want to say that she is playing games, but then on the other hand, i don't want to deal for two seconds with anything that i think is a game! does that make sense?
should i be patient and take a little longer to decide what is games and what is not? I know this is a vague question, but does anyone else feel that way after the divorce, starting to see people, wanting to have things go further in some circumstances, but then being intolerant of any perceived bullshit?
Re: Game Radar... shockedandamazed: Ummm...yes!! Right there with you - I made it no secret that I liked PG (you know who this is kev!) and I guess that is where I f'ed up...because that is when all the games came into play...
Yep - tired of all the bs - and this was only the first go at it! It takes two to tango....and now I am dancing alone!
I don't have the energy to try and figure it all out either...I want someone else to do all the work for once - I am so tired!
Don't what to tell you - if you see there is something there, then hang out for a while and see how things progress...if it takes to much work, then move on....it shouldn't be this much work to get to know someone.
