male input please? EssieDotCom: My husband told me on the phone recently, look up the lyrics to this song...
in you opinion, what would this mean for a man to his wife or to his girlfriend?
If you just walked away
What could I really say?
would it matter anyway?
would it change how you feel?
I am the mess you chose
the closet you can not close
The devil in you I suppose
'cuz the wounds never heal
(Chorus)
But everything changes
if I could turn back the years
If you could learn to forgive me
then I could learn to feel
Sometimes the things I say
In moments of disarray
Succumbing to the games we play
To make sure that it's real
(Chorus)
When it's just me and you
Who knows what we could do
If we can just make it through
through this part of the day
(Chorus)
Then we could
Stay here together
And we could
Conquer the world
If we could
Say that forever
It's more than just a word
If you just walked away
What could I really say?
It wouldn't matter anyway.
It wouldn't change how you feel.
Re: male input please? C-Note: I donno. The song confuses me. Seem's like he wants you to stay without him having to say anything to make it happen. I understand that bit. When a woman decides she's leaving theere's not much a guy can say to get her to stop, turn and come back. Anything a guy say's at that point just seems to push you away faster and further.
Just my 2 cents.
Re: male input please? EssieDotCom: thankz c-note. I know lately he's been wanting more than anything to work this out, but i also have to have self evidence that change is being made and not just words. I don't wanna fall into a trap.