Help ! Freckles: My StbxW just called BEGGING To come back !
:(
I said I will have to think about it.
SHE will call back in a hour or two!
She was going *I Love You ! I Am Sorry ! Please can I come back NOW ?
???
NOW ? She Shows REMORSE ? NOW ? Over 6 Months and not one Call ?
She says She Will No Longer Smoke Any Pot or Drink Alcohol.
I Told her EVERY Police Officer in Town Knows She Smokes Pot !
Oh, I wont do that anymore . She Says.
IF I let her come back
My WHOLE FAMILY Would Disown me
My Church would Disown Me
The POLICE Would Disown Me
Whole State Would Disown me.
AND She would start Smoking Pot and Drinking over Time.
HER Son would be Back and ATTACK Me.
I Am Thinking I Am going to say NO
Oh this is Aful !
Re: Help ! Lumpy: Stay Strong Freck. Look at it this way. She's probably got no one else to turn too. Do you think she's capable of changing. Make like Nancy Reagen and just say no.
Re: Help ! WhiskeyGirl: Freckles, I certainly can't tell you what to do....but I just want to say that you should NOT be making your decision based on what others will think.
Your family will disown you? Well...I would be more concerned about the fact that I spent half my life wanting the approval of people who would cast me out the minute I make a decision they don't agree with than worrying about actually being disowned.
And your church?....I don't know what church you go to freckles, but I though you were Christian....in which case...the very thought of casting someone out for what they may consider bad judgement goes against the very core of Christianity.
I'm not really religious...but I do know that the only unforgivable sin is blasphemy against the Holy Ghost .....and I also believe we are to forgive those who sin against us 70 times 7.....thats a whole lot of forgivenss goin' on right there.
Don't concern yourself with what others will think...follow your own heart.....and tell her the son goes to boot camp. ;)
Whatever you decide...make sure it is YOUR decision....and not one made to make others happy.
Re: Help ! ajw: Go with your first impulse,your probably right,she will never change and your just a soft place to land cause ever other person she knows is sick of her.
Its time to take care of yourself,because she sure does'nt have your best interests at heart
Re: Help ! Freckles: When we had BIG Blowup Sept 8, 2005 at 10:30 Pm
I came within a Hair of going to jail myself and losing my income that i have.
Police were here every other week at the end.
I can't take my Wife and stepson Smoking Pot and drinking and getting more and more Mad and Hostile to me.
Until SHE had Foot and a Half long Butcher Knife Grinning like She just won the Lottery(And Police Came)
Is she going to Forget all that ?
I sure Can't
:(
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