Re: I need some words of encouragment..... Horseface: [quote author=EQwidowX2B link=topic=28001.msg272271#msg272271 date=1145629671">
okay.. honestly how i feel.. I love him, but I think I'm falling for someone else.. and my life is moving on. Is that wrong of me?
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I'm so sorry for you and I hope this weekend goes well.
However, I thought we agreed that we wouldn't tell people about us? You know what a true disappointment that will be to all of the other Ojar women now that they now what has happened between us.
Sorry.. Couldn't resist..
Re: I need some words of encouragment..... Lumpy: Don't feel bad about moving on. If you're happier without him don't begrudge yourself that happiness. I think the question you need to ask yourself is whether or not he's really capable of change. Seems to me that he hasn't really dealt with his addiction.
Re: I need some words of encouragment..... EssieDotCom: [quote"> However, I thought we agreed that we wouldn't tell people about us? You know what a true disappointment that will be to all of the other Ojar women now that they now what has happened between us.[/quote">
LOL well.........I couldn't help myself ;)
Re: I need some words of encouragment..... alonewith2: It took almost a year and a half for my stbx to admit that he was wrong. By that time, I had already started the moving on process and I was starting to date this other guy. But I didn't want to live life wondering what if he really was sorry and really did want to make things work.
Deep down I knew that there was something missing, something wrong with the whole picture and the way things happened. But I agreed to the reconcilliation attempt....only to end up in the exact same place a year and a half later. It didn't take as long this time to get over the pain and betrayal, but I do feel that I missed a whole year of my life that could have been better spent...and that I'd be so much further along in my healing process had I not tried the reconcilliation.
If your gut says there's no love in his voice, then listen to it! Don't make the same mistake I made!!
