Hold the Phone. Issue. Assistance please. hudson: Okay. I'm in trouble. Not only have I gotten myself in a little too deep with this chick i've been dating, but I just met 'the bomb' chick. She works for my sister, just got hired. She's extremely, genuinely nice, friggin' hot, young, local, likes me, and she's totally into the outdoors and dogs and would be an awesome girlfriend for the summer.
Dammit! I can't date both of these girls, and i'm gonna feel like total crap when I break it off with the first girl to start dating this new one. Sheeat! When I tell the first girl that I want to see other people then she's gonna be hurt.
I'm gonna work through this. But I need some advice. Can I have some input my friendly ojarians?
thank you.
Re: Hold the Phone. Issue. Assistance please. DarrenB: Ah yes. The grass is greener syndrome again. Take my opinion for what it is worth, but if you enjoy your current girlfriend and the relationship you have with her, then I would stick with her and forget about "the bomb". Beauty and hotness fades really quick if her personaility just does not merge with yours.
You don't know what she is like, and you could be throwing away a good thing with the current GF whom you already enjoy spending time with.
Then again, if you are not happy dating your current gf..........forget you ever read this :D :D
Re: Hold the Phone. Issue. Assistance please. hudson: No, I like my current dating companion...she's not my "girlfriend". She's super nice, smart, and I really enjoy being with her. However, this new girl deserves a chance too. Don't you think? I'm still single, why shouldn't I be able to date her a few times just to see whats up?
Why do I have to be tied down to this one relationship? See, that's bullcrap. I was married not long ago and I don't want be commited to anybody. I want to be free to do my own thing. I won't always be like this, but at this stage of my life, I don't want a commitment.
This ain't "grass is greener", this is a single guy wanting to stroll through 2 or more different pastures. Isnt' that what dating is all about?
Re: Hold the Phone. Issue. Assistance please. Freckles: [quote author=blazin'heart link=topic=28023.msg272478#msg272478 date=1145657052">
This ain't "grass is greener", this is a single guy wanting to stroll through 2 or more different pastures. Isnt' that what dating is all about?
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This is the Way to lose both Women.
I have seen his happen , over and over(Other People)
Just my 2 Cents
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Re: Hold the Phone. Issue. Assistance please. DarrenB: [quote author=blazin'heart link=topic=28023.msg272478#msg272478 date=1145657052">
No, I like my current dating companion...she's not my "girlfriend. She's super nice, smart, and I really enjoy being with her. However, this new girl deserves a chance too. Don't you think? I'm still single, why shouldn't I be able to date her a few times just to see whats up?
Why do I have to be tied down to this one relationship? See, that's bullcrap. I was married not long ago and I don't want be commited to anybody. I want to be free to do my own thing. I won't always be like this, but at this stage of my life, I don't want a commitment.
This ain't "grass is greener", this is a single guy wanting to stroll through 2 or more different pastures. Isnt' that what dating is all about?
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Not that there is anything wrong with that. I guess it comes down to how the current girl would feel about it,her expectations of you and the kind of relationship she wants.
Were you up front and straight with her from the beginning of the relationship about not taking it so serious so soon? Is this something that she is ok with?
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