Re: Value all your opinions but are you sure? treeluva: March 6th, 2003, that was the date my divorce was final. Sometimes it still angers me, the things that I did for him, they things he did to me, then the things I did to him. It bothers me that he doesnt call his children, that he doesnt pay child support, that he doesnt see them ever.
But the knife in the heart twisting and turning is over. The day of my divorce, I sat down on the court steps and cried. It was the first time I cried throughout the whole process of getting a divorced, and I couldnt believe that it was actually over. Final. Done. I cried for about an hour, and my lawyer sat with me. My Ex husband didnt even show up to court that day. He just signed the papers my lawyer had, and that was all.
Since that day, I have not cried once. Always looked forward, for the next rainbow in sight. I decided that I dont have enough time or desire to continue to think about him, about what was, what could have been. Sure, there are days when I am stark raving mad. But those days are so few and far inbetween.
It will get better, you just have to allow yourself healing time, and then one day, decide, enough of that, time to move on to bigger and better things!
