My ex lives on ojar to toolboy: Yes she is here every day, I won't reveal her user name, not to hard to figure it out if you read my story or follow the posts. You mosty all do. I'm not trying to hide from any of you, privacey and get it out there is what its about. I'm cool with this, she regestered me with ojar. When I bought the computer she helped get me here. still learning to naviggate the site with her help. wanted to clarife the rerlatoinship. no rumors. that just got nasty
So here I am, have at me, if you feel the need. I never mean't to decieve.
toolboy
Re: My ex lives on ojar to Chey: Toolboy
This is a great site for healing and help, but even Michael has said it's not a great idea for a couple to try and find help on the same site.
I'm not sure how it's working out for both of you, but I hope you're both being honest and finding what you need.
C
Re: My ex lives on ojar to superwife: So yu know who she is, and she knows who you are, right?? That's got to be weird... how can you truly reveal your thoughts and feelings?
I'd be off of here in a heartbeat if my stbxh was on here.
Re: My ex lives on ojar to hurtnconfused: How awkward this must be for you. I do hope things work out for you in the future even if it is finding a new love.
Re: My ex lives on ojar to toolboy: Contrary to your thoughts I find this helpful. I get to say what I feel with out a confrontation and she has to see it, can not cut me off in mid-thoughts and feelings. At times my posts seem a little vague, but for the most part feel good about it to. I also get to see her feelings, what I have done wrong so I can change. Not b/c of her but for what I have done. We do not fight as much b/c we are on the same page. We talk about the past more, and the future as well.
She wants to move on, I do not want to stand in her way, how else would I know what not to do. We have disabled kids together, I won't leave them behind. The fighting needs to stop but how can we without comunication and understanding. I truly do not understand her( women seem to be a different breed of human beings). I'm trying to so as not to make the same mistakes again. Who knows me better than she? I could not enter into a relationship the way I am now or it would be doomed from the start.
Does this make any sence? I know it is working for me and I'm not afraid to say my piece despite her involvement. I still have my say and so does she.
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