Re: Wedding vows.. why bother? Irony:
Here's the person I miss:
http://ojar.com/boards/index.php/topic,27732.0.html
Re: Wedding vows.. why bother? yella: Oh geesh! Now I'm crying!!!
I can see how you'd miss her, but please try not to blame yourself. I too have blamed myself for losing something I thought I was going to have forever, but the truth is that neither of them were strong enough to pull through and give us what they promised.
So, all we can do now is pick up, brush off, look at what we did wrong, and try not to do it again. Otherwise we'd both go crazy.
Oh, and when the promises come... laugh! ;) I'm kidding...
Seriously, we both know now that there are some promises we'll believe, and some we won't. But the question is, which ones are they, and when can we believe them?
A question of all questions, huh?
Re: Wedding vows.. why bother? Irony:
Smiley, I sent her a copy of that and she told me it was beautiful.. she is friendly, but reserved.. it IS difficult to be treated like a casual friend but at least we're not clawing each others eyes oout either personally or though lawyers.
My mom told me its not nice to make girls cry.. sorry
Re: Wedding vows.. why bother? yella: Well, it really was beautiful... that's why I cried. Very heartfelt and soulfull. How can a girl not cry? ;)
I'm glad that you can have that type of friendship. Me? That'll never happen. Once I'm hurt, that's it. I'm not nice after that. I can't be. ::) :-\
Re: Wedding vows.. why bother? Irony: Well I hope she cried when she read it too.
That HAD to do something to melt her heart of ice.
I posted today in Tell Your Story Here, on the 6 month aniversery of her moving out.
http://ojar.com/boards/index.php/topic,28074.0.html
It's long but its the most honest appraisal of what has gone on.
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