Please help! Felling the depression setting in worchid76: :'(
I have been going through a very hard very fast union. Full of manipulations and abuse. On the most part on his side. Now ever since I left his side it seems like I am the one lashing out most of the time. Not very good @ verbal communication most of the time I hear myself saying A--hole. Is that a 15year old comeback or what?!
I feel very confused and depressed. I have been trying to get along and do what I think is best for the kids in the long run but it does not seem to be working. He still takes out the worst in me and I take the worst out of him. Thinking it was going to be for the better we have started to go into therapy. Now after just one visit he said we are getting back together.
I even thought it was going to be a better idea to write an agreement (skipping the mediation and lawyer bull) sending it to court. For this my lawyer dumped me flat. He got all pissed and stopped representing me. He kept his lawyer!!! And she is a woman hater ???
Now I have to show up infront of the judge by myself this Wed to discuss what we came up with.
He plans on telling the judge we are getting back together (I died when he said this) I think he is trying to get away with not giving me child support. By the way he has not helped me in the money department since I moved out. Said the because I was the one moving out I'm not suppose to get anything from him and we share the kids 1/2 the time.
I don't want to get back together with him yet I'm so scared ??? :-\ :'(
Help please
Re: Please help! Felling the depression setting in IlliniGirl: Honey, if you don't want to get back together, then don't.
Tell the judge this. Regardless of who left who, he does need to support his kids. Stand by your guns.
Believe me, I know how hard it is to stand by your guns, but you need to do what is right for you. You can't do what's right for him.
Be true to yourself....and your children.
Best Wishes,
AB
Re: Please help! Felling the depression setting in worchid76:
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Thank you Angel babe! I have been spending time aole and I mean alone on purpose you know. I guess I just wanted to be able to get my own thought collected and make my own decision. Sure you understand that when you have them around all the time right they try to change your mind or put words in your mouth.
