Re: T Minus 15 hours jaydee: exactly , saying "he doesnt derserve you" is a very impowering thing
i keep telling myself that....and it really is true.
im still in the stage of doing everthing i can to save my marriage, im willing do to the work..whatever it takes..and if she doesnt want to work on things ...than she doesnt deserve me...
keep your self busy and really work on yourself...gotta love yourself...its easy to say , harder to do...
lifes a trip, just trying to enjoy the ride.
JD
Re: T Minus 15 hours Hopeless: Mist,
Its not that he does not deserve you. You deserve better. It took a while for me to figure it out. I dont think any less of her for leaving, I just think more of myself. It sucked and I was a wreck for a long time. I read many books about relationships and stopping a divorce, but none of them matter in terms of the divorce, they matter about you. Keep strong and busy.
But as the old saying goes, what doesnt kill you...will make you stronger.
