Re: My ex............. Cherry: I never EVER thought I would be homesick for that little town, but in a lot of ways I am.
D is wonderful. Patient and caring thru the whole adjustment. Rearranging his life pretty much and making me feel like I belong. He doesnt make me feel like an outsider or an intruder at all.
Maybe it is just weird to me cuz Ive never had a man like this in my life EVER. I dont trust it almost. Seems too good to be true.
Re: My ex............. yella: Maybe it's just an adjustment that you need to get used to. Just keep taking it one day at a time and be cautious.
Re: My ex............. Cherry: Okay new development. My son told D that "His daddy didn't like to talk to him on the phone". That made me so sad. What do I do? What do I tell him?
My mom and I argued yesterday. She says I should in essence tell him his dad is a selfish self absorbed ass. I say he is too young and will figure it out on his own.
All I know is my little boy is hurting and I can't do a damn thing about it.
Re: My ex............. sheydp: Just tell him some people don't like phones, but that doesn't mean anything about how they feel about the person on the other end. Some people just don't like to talk on them! You are right not to slam his Daddy to him. HE loves his daddy - all you would be doing is slamming someone he loves, and making him feel he can't come to you with his feelings.
Of course he is hurting, honey, all kids feel that with divorce, with separation... We just do the best we can for them, and know that this is the best life we can give. His daddy IS all those horrible things, but what a horrible thing to find out, and the older he is, the better. He will adjust, and now you can give him more stability. It will be ok.
((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))
Shey
Re: My ex............. Cherry: Thanks Shey. Like I said to TTL. I just feel so damn guilty. I feel guilty for the choices I made trying to work things out for so long with my ex, for dragging them all the way here, for them feeling the lack of a dad in their lives....................well hell I feel bad for lots of shit.
I just dont know what to do. :-\
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