I really don't get this...any of this bluskygrl: So I meet a seemingly nice guy while out with friends Saturday night. He and I talk we have similar interests, recent break ups, children etc...
We dance, talk and hang out for the evening into early morning. He asks me to a concert in a few weeks I agree, he tells me he'd like to see me before then, I agree, he seems genuine, gives me his number and...
I wait all day to call until the evening so I have a child free moment to call and his ex answers???? He doesn't talk much I say I'll talk later he says to call him back in 20 minutes (or he will) I call back 40 minutes later (a child got up) - no answer....so I leave a message with my number - its 10 PM.
Now what???? Why does this all have to be so weird and difficult??
Am I really this dumb now when it comes to intuition about if he genuinely is in to me??
Blu
Re: I really don't get this...any of this yella: Wow!!! I see a red flag there. If his ex is answering his phone, and you call him back, but he doesn't answer, I'd be very weary of that.
Maybe he's not worth the time, but sometimes we can't always rely on intuition... sometimes it's experience we have to rely on. Unfortunately.
Re: I really don't get this...any of this lilly10: Trying to figure it out can get really confusing. I think it is best not to even try and just go with it. Not the best advise but what else can you do?
I guess my question is why was his ex answering his phone? Not that you know the answer but that may be a red flag unless they have been divorced for a long time. Still I would not answer my ex's phone.
As far as "now what?" I would not call him again due to the fact that you left a message last night with your #. I would say the ball is in his court now.
Re: I really don't get this...any of this threetimeloser: lilly is right. you will have to chill. if he is into you. he will call. if you call then he will think he has you and if he is a player he will take adavntage. As hard as it is, distract yourself with something or someone else.
Re: I really don't get this...any of this superwife: [color=red"> FLAG[/color">
[color=black"> Yeah, I agree. i just got out f a relationship where he and his stbx (for 5 yrs :o) were on very good terms. At first i didn't wuite think it was a problem, compared to my stbx and I, I thought it was good. Now I see it is t good.
If you really feel this is worth pursuing, I would be upfront and ask. You have nothing to lose, because if the answer is something you're not comfortable with, you'll know off the bat.
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