I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is rjack0612: Every now and then I still get angry. I look at my own situation and get upset because it seems to me that she is living the good life and I am still stuck in this pit of lonliness, etc.. I wonder if her "new" life is going as good as I sometimes think it is?
Re: I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is sudboy: [quote author=BDAD link=topic=28586.msg277885#msg277885 date=1147108781">
Every now and then I still get angry. I look at my own situation and get upset because it seems to me that she is living the good life and I am still stuck in this pit of lonliness, etc.. I wonder if her "new" life is going as good as I sometimes think it is?
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It ain't going as good as you might think it is -- and even if it is right now, it won't last.
I've seen the grass -- and the grass is not greener.
Re: I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is Older Guy: You can't really say if the grass is greener in this case or not. It might be and it might not be.
Saying otherwise could give someone what could be a sense of false hope or expectations.
BDAD - try to focus on your life and yourself and not on what you're ex is doing or how her life is. You'll feel better in the long run. You just need to get through this period.
OG
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Every now and then I still get angry. I look at my own situation and get upset because it seems to me that she is living the good life and I am still stuck in this pit of lonliness, etc.. I wonder if her "new" life is going as good as I sometimes think it is?
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It ain't going as good as you might think it is -- and even if it is right now, it won't last.
I've seen the grass -- and the grass is not greener.
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Re: I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is lilly10: I agree with OG. The grass being greener would depend on many different factors. I'm sure there are many cases where the grass is greener and many where it is not so green at all.
We can only make sure the grass is greener for us. It takes a bit to get to that point but think positive about your own life and you will get there.
Re: I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is Lumpy: I was the leavee but I'd have to say that the grass has been greener for both of us. We had been growing apart for so long that there just wasn't much left at the end.
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