Re: I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is watwat226: Hell no!
I think you're right trapped. Thinking that they feel the same pains that we do seems somewhat comforting. Don't you think?
If I can make myself believe that my ex is also miserable and hurting inside like I am it makes all the difference. But I don't want it to get to the point where I give myself false hopes and such.
So just thinking about it in that way is enough for me.