Re: I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is Older Guy: Same here. By the time our marriage ended we were working on a patch of grass about the size of a postage stamp. The grass is much greener for both of us now. :)
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I was the leavee but I'd have to say that the grass has been greener for both of us. We had been growing apart for so long that there just wasn't much left at the end.
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Re: I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is sosad05: Bdad...I understand how you feel. While, I know the "right" thing to do is to focus on MY life, its so much easier said than done. My thoughts are that if she cheated on you and went to him, she still has issues and eventually she'll have problems with him. People who cheat have issues within themselves. If she is having problems, she'll NEVER let you see it. I know my xh situation appears so good, but I know I'll never see the bad. Just as Ill NEVER let him see any of my pain either. Good luck. Your not alone!
Re: I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is ChiefWiggum: [quote author=BDAD link=topic=28586.msg277885#msg277885 date=1147108781"> I wonder if her "new" life is going as good as I sometimes think it is?
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Her new life is probably wonderful, but eventually it will turn to crap and she'll realize what she did. I got rid of everything related to my xw. I do not want to think about her, I certainly don't want to "wonder about her new life" as you seem to enjoy. I want her gone.
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Re: I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is newts: [quote"> Every now and then I still get angry. I look at my own situation and get upset because it seems to me that she is living the good life and I am still stuck in this pit of lonliness, etc.. I wonder if her "new" life is going as good as I sometimes think it is?[/quote">
Maybe it is, maybe it isn't. Just remember you to could have a life that you think she is having, it's all in the mind and if you want to have the life that you think she is having well then you can! Believe it and it will come to you.
Re: I Wonder if Her New Life is as Great as I think it is trapped: I know how you feel. Ex seems so happy w/o me..like it was the best thing he ever did when he left me (again). Why am I not good enough often comes to mind. If only I were not sick, or more fun, or prettier or whatever it may be, maybe he would be happier with me than without me. But you know what...I think its a front sometimes. That at the end of the day hes not any happier. That he secretly misses me and has regrets.
Is it bad of us to hope thats the case?
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