Re: Freakin Idiot!!! yella: Then he can call. He can also call the church.
What the hell would he need the freakin diploma for? It was high school! ::)
He already said to me, "Well, you should have put all my things neatly packed away in a box." Yeah, a dumpster maybe!!! WTF!?
I'm getting close to just telling him to jump off a damn bridge!! The agreement's already signed, and the divorce will be final in less than 3 months. He should take care of his own sh!t like everyone else.
I'm already expected to be the one responsible for getting the damn house ready!!! >:( I'm not responsible for his life anymore. He left it, he can deal with it!
Re: Freakin Idiot!!! clockwork: Oh Smiley, I soooo understand. When xh left, he took what he was wearing and nothing else, he even had his mother buy him new clothes so that he wouldn't have to come home and get his. IDIOT!!!!!
I was left to pack up our home, and was in NO WAY going to sit there and go thru all of that crap...
"Ok, this goes in his pile, and this goes in my pile." WHATEVER. I left his clothes, (which is basically ALL he brought into the home to start with) etc, but the little things i put into boxes, and packed away in storage. He didn't help do a damn thing, didn't even come back to our house until a week AFTER i did everything. He even let our dog out of the house, didn't tell anyone, and when K, L, and I went home, the dog was gone--couldn't find her anywhere. Still don't have a clue what happened to her.
Well about about a month or so ago, he tells me that he would like to have his stuff. Okay, i will get to it when i can. This crap is packed in boxes in a storage unit on the other side of town (side where we lived). Two days later, he asks again, again, i will get to it as soon as i get a chance. A couple of days later he asks again.
Okay asshole--you have gone for a year without this crap what is your hurry now? I am not going to stop what i am doing to drive out there, go thru that crap, bring back all the anger from having to pack it up to start with, and get you what you WANT-just because you tell me to. When i get time to do it i will---until then, leave me the hell alone. >:(
If you were that worried about the crap, why didn't ya take it with ya when ya left? ASS!!!!!!1
Re: Freakin Idiot!!! yella: EXACTLY!!!!!!
The problem with him is that he never did a damn thing on his own. NOTHING!!! I handled it all, and yeah towards the end of the marriage I messed a lot of crap up, but what did he expect? I almost lost my younger son because of him, but I'm supposed to be his servant and get everything he needs?! I don't think so!
He has a damn phone and his sister-in-law is like a freakin secretery in that house. Let her track it all down! >:(
A ton of his crap is in bags and totes in the basement... I'm not going to waste my time rushing around looking for that for a piece of crap like him! NO! >:(
You're a much bigger person than I am packing it all up like that.
Re: Freakin Idiot!!! DarrenB: [quote author=Smiley link=topic=28594.msg277932#msg277932 date=1147116911">
I'm getting close to just telling him to jump off a damn bridge!! deal with it!
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Why you haven't done this already, I don't understand. He forgot them, let him deal with the consequences. Why does his mistake have to turn into an emergency on your part? You are way too nice an ex, Smiley. :)
Re: Freakin Idiot!!! yella: *sigh* Because I'm still afraid of him. He's always instilled this fear in me that everything I do is wrong and that I owe him, so maybe it's guilt too, but I'm learning that I can't live my life like that anymore. You're right though, he left them. I was asked in court to gather his pictures and stuff when the house was put on the market. Not when he calls demanding everything!
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