uhhg, why is she stalling? resengen: OK, so I ping the STBXW real quick. I have been asking her questions about our divorce agreement. So i can put things together. And ask her about having my daughter more. She respoonds with this(boiled down fo course):
1)I do not have money for a lawyer. I may have to postpone the divorce for a little while.
2)I will let you have your daughter over night in june but you have to prove that she will have a place to sleep, and three meals a day.
OK I am like WTF? First of all. just becasue you want to postpone. Does not mean I am willing. I have filed. You will get serverd. Just because my lawyer is a p#ssy and wants to be nice. I am moving forward. Money or not, once your served you have to respond in 30 days. (I am in NY).
Second, you are not going to going to make me prove sh!t. Because this is two ways honey. How about I make you prove you are taking good care of my daughter. You live in a getto neighborhood, make crap money, live off my child support and maintanence. YOu fought to keep the house, so the burdon is on you. Not my problem you cant afford crap.
I am not stopping bacause it is inconvinenet for you. It has been over a year of seperation. Now you are asking for another year by my rechoning. Hell no, I need to move on. I have a new life ahead of me. And loosing you is something i need to do.
Do not keep my daughter from me, do not mark me as a bad father. I have always known you are a great mother. But you were a bad wife. I will not halt because you want to stop. You are not in the drivers seat now I am. You should really have thought of this when i offered mediation and willing to pay for the whole thing. You needed a lawyer to fight for your interests. You missed the whole idea of what mediation was about. I am not stopping because you ran out of money. Not my problem. You should have gotten a better job with the years of education I payed for.
Well I am mad, and will probably not be so hostel in the morning. Thanks for listining.
Re: uhhg, why is she stalling? Lumpy: Good for you! You're absolutely right. This doesn't have to be done on her timetable. Push your advantage by all means. If she doesn't respond in time it may end up helping your case.
Re: uhhg, why is she stalling? tara: What, is she assuming you're going to feed your kid dog food and let her sleep in the bathtub?
Re: uhhg, why is she stalling? flyaway: [quote author=tara link=topic=28607.msg278304#msg278304 date=1147178757">
What, is she assuming you're going to feed your kid dog food and let her sleep in the bathtub?
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tara, nothing surprises me anymore.....it's like the person you've been married to suddenly loses thier mind and just thinks you've become incapable of taking care of the kids. ::)
