What to do??? superwife: So I'm getting e-mails from the dating sites. SOme of which don't have pics. I don't rule anyopne out based on lack of a pic. SOme don't want to display it publicly.
So I had at least 2 where I requested a pic...they sent it to me...and I wasn't too impressed. So what do I do?? Just ignore? That seems so bitchy, but how do I say 'you're not my type' (which is so lame).
OIne of the guys sent me another e-mail after he sent me the pic, saying something like "what happened...you didn't like my pic??
I know for me, I wouldn't do that. And it did happen to me last year: I'd send a pic, then never hear again. Is there etiquette on this??
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Re: What to do??? jillieb44: I don't reply to those with no pic. I even told some persistent ones that I thought if they weren't showing a pic, that they were either married, involved, or had something to hide. To which he replied, you're right.
So, I ask them to post it publicly if their profile is interesting. But for the most part I just ignore them.
Jillie, who is ignoring them ALL at the moment
Re: What to do??? chaotic: I dont know if there is an etiquite, but I agree, no pic, no response. I dont know about the no reply if there is a pic. I have sent a number of emails and been "ignored". I am getting used to it, so it doesnt really matter to me if someone replies or not. (though my picture is posted publicly). Now I just have to figure out what is wrong with my pics
Re: What to do??? jillieb44: I'd rather someone just ignore me than tell me that they're dating someone else, I'm not their type, or some other nonsense.
Jillie
Re: What to do??? corkscrew: I find people don't always look all that much like their pics. I'd say give it a chance but I just had a bad date. :-[
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