Hmm, is my hunch right? resengen: My stbxW behavior has been changing lately. One, she asked to put off the divorce(she says it is financial). Two, she has been communicating with members of my family. my sister, my mother, my grandmother. Which she has not done so for a year. Three, she finally agreed to start letting me have my daughter for over nights. My hunch, she wants to reconcile. Why do I think this? because she would randomly reach out to my friends and family like this when we broke up (when we were dating) to get back together. If this is true there are a couple of glitches. One I am in love with someone I have been seeing for the last year. Two, I do not ever want to get back together with her. I have fallen out of love with her. I can not love someone who treated me the way she did. We ultimatly have nothing in common. She is an extremely proud person. She will not come straight out and ask me to reconcile. So that she keep her in check. But, now she will start nosing around my life. I want her to stay away from me. The only communiation i am going to have with her is, divorce, daughter, or money. Other than that, no communication.
Re: Hmm, is my hunch right? Older Guy: hummmm ... all of this sounds very familiar. Stay where you are and are happy.
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My stbxW behavior has been changing lately. One, she asked to put off the divorce(she says it is financial). Two, she has been communicating with members of my family. my sister, my mother, my grandmother. Which she has not done so for a year. Three, she finally agreed to start letting me have my daughter for over nights. My hunch, she wants to reconcile. Why do I think this? because she would randomly reach out to my friends and family like this when we broke up (when we were dating) to get back together. If this is true there are a couple of glitches. One I am in love with someone I have been seeing for the last year. Two, I do not ever want to get back together with her. I have fallen out of love with her. I can not love someone who treated me the way she did. We ultimatly have nothing in common. She is an extremely proud person. She will not come straight out and ask me to reconcile. So that she keep her in check. But, now she will start nosing around my life. I want her to stay away from me. The only communiation i am going to have with her is, divorce, daughter, or money. Other than that, no communication.
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Re: Hmm, is my hunch right? Lumpy: Why even bother to speculate? Done is done.
Re: Hmm, is my hunch right? resengen: you guys are right. i dont ever want to go back ther. I just have to be aware of her behavior. So I know I will not fall back into it. thanks for listening.
Re: Hmm, is my hunch right? corkscrew: I'd say you're right on the money res. Who says only women have unfailable intuition? But you know what? If she's not gonna swallow her pride to ask, its just saving you from a very awkward and embarassing situation. Keep on trucking and avoid her as much as possible.
