For those who were cheated on Falcon554: Some of you know my story, what a weird year it has been. Some of you wonder if the person who cheated on you were ever sorry? Well my x-wife is, I just think it takes them time to come to grips with it.
It did her, the guilt, the denial, the insanity of it all. Now for some im sure they will never never be sorry, but like my X, it took a while to really see what a mistake she really made.
So her I sit almost 1 year to the day that this all started, im back living at home with my X, tho we are not "back together". We are just taking things slow and trying to just make it day by day.
We may be the weirdest Xs in the world LOL. We go out together on weekends, have alot of fun. Something we never did before. Where she was always my best friend I lost that after 19 years, now she is again my best friend. Who knows what will happen. Sure nice to be home with my daughter again tho. And have somewhat of a normal family life.
So for those of you that had this horrible thing happen to them, im sure alot of cheaters finally understand what pain they caused, they may not say it but I do believe they understand after a while.
My X know it was the worse mistake of her life. All it did was destroy, and hurt so many people, for what? Dont try to understand it makes no sence at all. Even my X now says "what the hell was wrong with me". We got divorced for other reasons, the affair was just a symptom of what was wrong with our marriage.
Good luck to all that has or is going thur this nightmare. Its the single most horrible thing that ever happend to me.
Scott
Re: For those who were cheated on 2be: Good for you and I am happy you two are attempting to heal that wound. :D
Re: For those who were cheated on fkunone: Dude - way I see it, major mistake. Should've been taking it slow outside of living together. That's how I see it. I'm happy for you, but it's not for me. I don't care if she runs guilt out her pores. Says she's sorry, tries to sell me a dream and a hope.
Not having it.
Nope.
Re: For those who were cheated on wingnut: Mine said she regrets doing it and shes is sorry. One month later I find out she is preg with her new boyfriend's baby. I have to laugh at that. I spent a lot of money proving adultry and now I do not even need to prove it. She does not stand a chance.
I am glad that things are heading in the right direction for you. Keep up the good slow work, and I mean work.
Re: For those who were cheated on 2be: [quote author=fkunone link=topic=29051.msg282410#msg282410 date=1147880757">
Dude - way I see it, major mistake. Should've been taking it slow outside of living together. That's how I see it. I'm happy for you, but it's not for me. I don't care if she runs guilt out her pores. Says she's sorry, tries to sell me a dream and a hope.
Not having it.
Nope.
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Cuz you're the juggernaut, B!itch!
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