Re: For those who were cheated on chaotic: I was not talking about doing all that for revenge. Instead, I will have my revenge when she realizes that I have moved on and that I am perfectly happy with out her. All of the other stuff, throwing the wine at her will be just a matter of icing on the cake. I think she would feel a portion of the humiliation that I felt.
However, you are right. Revenge is only temporary, brings more pain, etc. But when she realizes that I can be happy without her, and her relationship with the OM turns to sh!t and she cant just come crawling back to me.....well everything will be fine.
