Re: For those who were cheated on fkunone: Y'd&mn right..... ;D
Re: For those who were cheated on hurtnconfused: I was cheated on for years and didn't know it for sure. It has killed me and I hope one day he hurts like hell because he threw his family away for a tramp who threw her family away as well.
Re: For those who were cheated on ctrlaltdelete: I have something to add to this...
My ex cheated on me with my best friend (that's the one I know about for sure - there are other suspicions, though he has denied them). Frankly, I don't care if he realizes he hurt me or is even sorry for it. What I can say now is that I have observed over the past few years, a man who is never satisfied in a relationship. He thrives on the "new and exciting" and when the real "relationship" part starts to settle in, it's buh-bye to his flavor of the month. He goes through women like you wouldn't believe.
How awful to always be on the prowl and never satisfied. He craves the attention and the chase. How sad that he is probably never going to get to settle down with someone because of his sexual addiction. Do you know how relieved I am that he is no longer my problem?
I was devastated at first, thinking it was me. There was something wrong with me - not pretty enough, not exciting enough, couldn't do anything right, wasn't good enough in bed, was a bad wife, etc. You name it. I don't believe any of it anymore. It was he who wasn't good enough for me.
Life goes on and it is better. This is fact coming from a 3-year post-divorce veteran, so believe it.
Re: For those who were cheated on hurtnconfused:
[quote"> I was devastated at first, thinking it was me. There was something wrong with me - not pretty enough, not exciting enough, couldn't do anything right, wasn't good enough in bed, was a bad wife, etc. You name it. I don't believe any of it anymore. It was he who wasn't good enough for me[/quote">
I totally relate...
Re: For those who were cheated on chaotic: In my case, I am hoping karma is real. She cheated on me, he cheated on his x (with 2 other women prior to his divorce). So I think it is only a matter of time before this decision bites her in the arse.
I truly hope that one day she comes to me and says she is sorry, feels guilty and reallizes the mistake she made......
I want to look her straight in the eyes, see the pain, reach in my pocket and grab the old wedding ring....Give her a small loving smile.....
Then throw the wedding ring in her face followed by the glass of wine I am drinking. Call her a b!tch that got what she deserves and walk out of the restaraunt with the biggest sh!t eating grin on my face. And leave her with the bill. For at that point I will have had my revenge.
Sometimes the greatest form of revenge you can have is the other person knowing you are now happy.
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