Re: Making Your kids feel ok. KROD172127: Thanks for all the advice. I hope that this will work out for us. I know that my man loves me and wants us to be together. I thought that he was going to be upset because I have been looking up information and trying to get advice on this subject, but he was very open to it and I think that is a good sign. I know that he needs to spend alone time with his kids, one on one and both of them together. Thanks again! ;)
Re: Making Your kids feel ok. twine: i have a bit of a different point of view here, i have a good friend(woman) who has 2 kids, there father sees them very little because he is always with his other woman and her kids, now his own kids are very mad with him because when he does come to pick them up the new kids are always with him, he really should spend time alone with his own kids as he is with the other kids all the time, his kids are starting to resent him for this
Re: Making Your kids feel ok. KROD172127: I totally agree with you! He should be spending alone time with them, which he does right now. We aren't living together and I don't want to just yet anyways. I think that not only doe he need to spen the time with them alone, but he also should spend sometime with each of them alone. When his oldest son gets a little older he is going to coach him in sports and stuff. Right now he is actually taking the oldest one to the movies and has had me take him out so he could spend sometime with the younger one and so that I could spend time with the older one. I really don't think that there is that big of a problem here right now. I think that he believes that they will have a problem when they get a little older, but that is why I am getting advice now.
