Re: Do I Really Want To Know corkscrew: I only have one issue that I feel this way about. I'm about 98.9% sure my ex and my little sister f****d. Neither will admit to it though.
Re: Do I Really Want To Know katelyn: Oh man, that's harsh! >:(
Re: Do I Really Want To Know thehitekrednek: I think YJ is right here, it isn't going to accomplish anything positive, so I will purge it somehow and be done with it.
Re: Do I Really Want To Know yella: [quote author=Spike link=topic=29510.msg288597#msg288597 date=1148920129">
Ahhh, Smiley. If only you had moved north, I wouldn't care anymore, I'd have the greatest girl in the world. Alas, it was not meant to be. I don't even know if it's a problem, now that I have brought out, instead of holding it in.
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Spike, you're a sweetie! But, I can promise you one thing...
You got too close to me and death will seem like a better option than staying alive. ;) Trust me on that.
But, I love ya anyway!! :-*
In any event, when trying to patch things up with your wife, you need to be careful where you go and how you approach things. Neither one of you can fully trust the other yet. You're afraid of what she might do, and if she'll cheat again, and she's afraid of the punishment you'll place on her if she answers a question wrong.
Maybe you both should really bring this kind of thing up in therapy together. Let the therapist help decide if these types of questions should be asked, how they should be asked, and most importantly, which ones. This of course is if you do decide you want to know something.
But if I were in your shoes, I'd rather not know. Unless it's health related. ;)
Re: Do I Really Want To Know Irony: In the words of that Toby Keith song:
"I wish somehow I didn't know now what I didn't know then"
iron man
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