Why would he let her????? Feel: Hi Everyone,
It's been awhile now since I've told my story, but I don't want to go over it again...
Can anyone help?
Lastnight, STBEH called to speak to huis son... Now when ever the OW isn't around him he always has something to say " can't we try again, I'll prove she isn't in my life at all, I'll make it work this time, etc... oh and this one, she was just a bang and still is....!!!!" meanwhile when I drop my son off to him he is groping me and grabing my face to kiss him and then he asks for a kiss infront of my son, and when I say NO, my son gets upset and says, "kiss daddy mommy"..... what am I supposed to do?
Anyway lastnight when he called he didn't seem right... (he has an order fromt he judge that he can call me everynight to say goodnight to his son) that sucks! Well he tells me the OW buys a house and he says that he's a changed man... My words to him were "move on with the HOE and carry her over the new thresh hold"!
I guess she heard me say HOE, she called me back and started swareing at me! Making accusations that I got pregnant to keep my husband... (NOT THE CASE) meanwhile she has been the one banging STBEH, since 2004... he would go missing for 3-4days at a time, not even a call to find out if my son and I were OK.... At times when we would try to make it work he would come home with scatches on his neck and have to tell me the truth...
I was by myself for 1 year and 9months until I met someone...
ANyway she continued to say things that you can tell he put in her head... SHe said that the only reason he asks to take him back and say that he loves me, is for the sake of his son! I just let her talk, meanwhile I told he r that she should stay out of it an keep what happens with our son and him and me between the two of us, she has no busniess getting involved, and that she better be careful becuase if this goes on he will loose his son in all! As well, I asked if he told her that he was in my parents house grabbing me and groping me... these things he doesn't tell her, just that I say I still love him...
I may ramble on, but I need to know how to deal with her and him, charging me at the same time... I was only married 9months before he was sneaking off with her as he kept comming back and forth in the 3 years total.
Then he called this morning saying he was sorry that he didn't know she was talking to me! That he wants to get along, I just think he is scared now!
Help Please
Re: Why would he let her????? corkscrew: He's doing this out of desperation. And that HOE needs to butt the f*ck out. She might be throwing down on his rod every night, but this doesn't make any of this her business.
Re: Why would he let her????? Feel: Whether or not we were meant to be or it was wrong to get married, you don't do this to anyone, but then to have the OW bash you and call you names and say things that the man you married and I loved dearly is just saying things to me to see his son.... who the FLUCK does she think she is... she took a young family starting out and struggling with the pressures of a new marriage and child and a house, to make him feel that the grass was greener on the other side... FLUCK HER, I hope she roughts and fast... I hope that he does nothing for her as he did for me. the satisfaction of it tho is that I know he really does want me back and I know that he is freaking out that I have another man now, who does please me in every way. and I am faithful to My New Man! I am not him and don't need to have controll over the other person... Nor do I need someone wallowing at my feet as she does to his!
I hate her and I hate him for waht he has done to our family... I won't get over it and not yet especially if she stays in his life!
Re: Why would he let her????? Lumpy: He's playing both of you. Let him go. Let her deal with his B.S.
Re: Why would he let her????? sosad05: I agree with Lumpy! Why are you even discussing anything with him other than the child's visitation schedule?
He's got you two at each other's throats while he sits back and watches two women fight over him.
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