Was this wrong???? Redponcho: My ex came over this morning to get something my daughter wanted. It was great to see my kids for a half hour. She told me she was having problems and was depressed. I basically told ther so what I am not exactly happy either. I could tell this was not the answer she was looking for. I didnt do it to be mean I just dont really care about her problems. Was this wrong of me?????
Re: Was this wrong???? corkscrew: No it was the truth. Maybe you could have worded it more nicely, but I think she was only upset because she wanted to talk and you denied her that. Next time tell her to throw her pity party on her own time because you've got other worries.
Re: Was this wrong???? Feel: We should always be straight about how we feel, and tho at times we hurt about it, it was the truth! Especially if she left you high out to dry...
But now I bet your wondering what it was that she was upset about...
When you make a choice to say something, say it and don't feel bad about it... I am one for the full truth not half, therefore you said what you were feeling at that time!
Re: Was this wrong???? Redponcho: I know what she was upset about. It is the reason our marriage ended. She is dealing with her new "lifestyle".
Re: Was this wrong???? Lumpy: I think it was fair too. I can't help being sarcastic when the leaver wants sympathy. Join the club sweetheart. Life's tough, get a helmet.
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