Re: So your best friend is dating an a--hole/bitch.... the jude: I am in a very similar situation with my best friend. She has fallen for such a LOSER it's disgusting. No one in her family likes him and he lives with the mother of his children. All he does is drink, he has children that he doesn't seem to care about, and he can be very mean to my friend. I can go on and on about how bad he is for her, have I told her how I feel and how I think she deserves so much more? Yes I do tell her and she says she knows that I'm right and that her family is right, but what it comes down to I think is that she's lonely and he's around. If someone better comes along then she will stop seeing this guy (who is basically her ex in a different pair of jeans). Plus she likes to be in control and feels in control with him. All I do is remind her how much better she is without him and that she deserves better and that I'm always here for her b/c one day she will see the light!!!!
Re: So your best friend is dating an a--hole/bitch.... NO DATE: [quote author=the jude link=topic=29525.msg289646#msg289646 date=1149097959">
I am in a very similar situation with my best friend. She has fallen for such a LOSER it's disgusting. No one in her family likes him and he lives with the mother of his children. All he does is drink, he has children that he doesn't seem to care about, and he can be very mean to my friend. I can go on and on about how bad he is for her, have I told her how I feel and how I think she deserves so much more? Yes I do tell her and she says she knows that I'm right and that her family is right, but what it comes down to I think is that she's lonely and he's around. If someone better comes along then she will stop seeing this guy (who is basically her ex in a different pair of jeans). Plus she likes to be in control and feels in control with him. All I do is remind her how much better she is without him and that she deserves better and that I'm always here for her b/c[color=red"> one day she will see the light!!!!
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so one would hope! but I would say stay clear of saying too much to her about him ,bc it could come back to haunt you...
Re: So your best friend is dating an a--hole/bitch.... 2be: [quote author=the jude link=topic=29525.msg289646#msg289646 date=1149097959">
I am in a very similar situation with my best friend. She has fallen for such a LOSER it's disgusting. No one in her family likes him and he lives with the mother of his children. All he does is drink, he has children that he doesn't seem to care about, and he can be very mean to my friend. I can go on and on about how bad he is for her, have I told her how I feel and how I think she deserves so much more? Yes I do tell her and she says she knows that I'm right and that her family is right, but what it comes down to I think is that she's lonely and he's around. If someone better comes along then she will stop seeing this guy (who is basically her ex in a different pair of jeans). Plus she likes to be in control and feels in control with him. All I do is remind her how much better she is without him and that she deserves better and that I'm always here for her b/c one day she will see the light!!!!
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Is your friend dating my g/f's brother? :D
Re: So your best friend is dating an a--hole/bitch.... bluskygrl: [quote author=2be link=topic=29525.msg289802#msg289802 date=1149116532">
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Is your friend dating my g/f's brother? :D
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LMAO - but I don' t think so his only sister is 8 - but who knows he could be lying about that too...
Ditto Jude I am just trying to keep it honest but low key!
I've been pretty quiet and I think she realizes it so she has made a few more attempts this week. She knows that my silence speaks volumes.
Blu
