maybe all our righteous indignation is wrong?!? sylvia3113: Maybe our ex-es were right.
Maybe they did the right thing.
Maybe we weren't meant to be together.
Maybe they are happy now.
Maybe the one they left us for is the right one for them and we weren't.
Maybe all those silly excuses he gave WERE enough to end a marriage.
Maybe he never really did love me.
Maybe SHE is his true love.
Maybe this is about me and not about him.
Maybe he did the right thing.
After all, it has been over a year now since he left and they are still together. They are still apparently happy. They still apparently have no regrets.
We are all so sure that they made a huge mistake and they will realize it eventually. We tell each other that they will regret it and karma will get them and it will never work. Perhaps we are the delusional ones.
After all, she got my husband and he left me for her and it didn't blow up in their faces as everyone said it would or as I hoped it would. They apparently didn't ever have to deal with any repurcussions of the way they got together like I hoped they would. They apparently trust each other regardless of the way they got together, not like I assumed they wouldn't be able to.
They don't live together. He is trying to buy a house by himself and she lives 20 minutes away. Maybe that's what makes it so easy for them. They don't have the realities of everyday mundane life to deal with. They get to giggle on the phone and look forward to spending the night with each other however often they do. They don't have to fight over cleaning up dog poop or who's gonna call for pizza this time. Regardless, it seems to work for them.
I remember before we moved in together (we dated a year and a half first) it was so perfect and even for the first few years of living together it was still virtually perfect. I guess they have a long time to go before things may or may not fall apart.
Maybe I'm the delusional one for thinking what he did was the wrong thing.
Re: maybe all our righteous indignation is wrong?!? fkunone: Eh, maybe.
Re: maybe all our righteous indignation is wrong?!? corkscrew: Are you drinking?
Re: maybe all our righteous indignation is wrong?!? sylvia3113: diet dr. pepper. straight up.
does my post make me sound inebriated??
i've actually been thinking about this for awhile. believe it or not, it's not just random babbling.
maybe i have finally lost my mind.
:-\
Re: maybe all our righteous indignation is wrong?!? corkscrew: I'm glad my ex chose to leave, but that doesn't make his actions right.
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