Re: Can someone explain this? Hopeless: Thanks for all the input. I am trying not to read into anything she says right now. She said that when she got back from her trip with our Daughter that she wanted to come into the house and throw her arms around me, but did not feel the connection when she saw me. I wish I had known her intentions. I would have loved that moment.
Oh well, monday is "D" day. Our final day in court and our divorce will become final. 9 month journey.....what a ride!
Re: Can someone explain this? Feel: ??? it hurts I know... they leavve you and then they make you feel like you are in the wrong when you want to move forward with someone who does have interest in you!
maybe she is strted to feel the pain of not having you and now she wants to try, but it can hurt your new realtionship... are you willing to take a chance and go back to try with your wife or do you want to move on now, knowing what you know of her!
She is or was your wife you need to never feel like you didn't try hard enough... but if you do try, you can have no contact with that OW what so ever... but be honest with the OW, if she understands, she will give you the chance and not make you feel guilty!
Re: Can someone explain this? Annie: She may:
1. still have feelings for you;
2. feel guilty;
3. give you heads-up
Or, why does it always have to be dating? She just got out of one not-so-good relationship, why jump right into another one? There's so much more to do in life other than dating. Ever though of that?
