With OW & won't stop the accusations.... Feel: He has moved on with the OW, non the less still blaming me and making accusations about me! He's still with the same women from 2years ago!
Calls me at work, home, on my cell doesn't blink an eye to call me a name, says she is the better women because she stook by him, 2 years later after all the B.S. of back and forth and leaving me with a baby, to me moving forward with a desent man who treats me like I am his everything and who charishes the ground I walk on to making accusations that I spent my time in hotels while we were together!
I was never anywhere with my new guy and my NG knows how I feel about my STBXH, doesn't understand how I can still care after the way he treats me and yet when I accepted him back after all the cheating and lies and me going nuts thinking I was the one with the problem... he still continues to accuse me of doing what he did!
No matter what I wasn't the one who left him with a baby and go screw around drink and have fun....
Today he calls as he as been asking for me to switch days, he has a golf tournament, well after the hell he put me through on Sunday, having the OW get on the phone and sware at me and tell me that him and I were never meant to be and they all knew it before we even married and said that I got pregnant to keep him (no I didn't I truly love him or I wouldn't be hurting this way) and just be so rude and a bitch, FORGET it, that should never have happened... she and he took my family away, left my son with no father to wake up to each morning and me, he left me for a slut... why should I bend over for him, I bent over long enough! Anyway I said NO...
Now he is calling making accusations that I have been with the OM for a long time and I was seeing him while I was married.... and that I went to hotels with him....
Guys, I'mn sorry I am so angry, he manages to just make me hurt all the time... if he wants her so bad why can't he just leave me alone.... My son and I were just fine, and then when he came back a year later, it ruined everything.... My son and I have been nervous recks, still trying and struggling to get on routine, now with all new change, it brings more stress, being in an aptment, my son still calls our house home and say's, "mom, when are we going home to our house"
HELP ME PLEASE....
Re: With OW & won't stop the accusations.... feelin lost: I am not a shrink but my psycho analysis is that he probably still wants you on some level and is upset about your NM because of his guilty concious. Next time just hang up on him, and keep hanging up on him until he quits calling for a day or 2... it'll make you feel better and might give him the clue that your not hanging on his every word.
I'm sorry about your son, no advice there....
Re: With OW & won't stop the accusations.... wendieann: [quote author=Feel link=topic=29558.msg289102#msg289102 date=1149011110">
she and he took my family away, left my son with no father to wake up to each morning and me, he left me for a slut...
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I hear ya... My stbxh did the same... it's very hard, esp. when the ow calls and says such mean things...so does the ow 2 me. She said she plans on taking my kids from me, etc... >:( she said she was obviously better than me and the 6 week old baby....etc... :'(
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