On an upswing Plucky: So my ex (#2) has boderline personality blahdy blah. I dunno. Yesterday he was cold and rude when I picked up my son. Today, I get a long-as-shiznit email about how wonderful our son is and how happy he is about the way my son is growing up into a rough and tumble little gentleman. Then, there's a huge paragraph about how he wants to help me follow my bliss and get into the business that I want to be in...gave me suggestions, etc.
I'm reminded how often he made me think I was crazy when we were married because of the mood swings (before I knew what it was). Whew! Glad I'm off that ride!
Re: On an upswing chiefkyle: I have border line personality disorder too.
I can't stand being around her (face to face), but when we are apart, I miss her like crazy.
Something he will have to learn to control, if you have to deal with him, your have to learn to live with it.
Sorry.
Re: On an upswing hr: You guys are reading my thoughts exactly. My stbx used to make me rethink all my responses to his stupid behavior and turned everything into my fault.
I am having no contact with him unless he calls me. He called Tuesday all nice--can I come get some of my things, how are you, blah blah. He never showed. On Saturday he came to drop off money for one of his bills. Dropped the money on the counter said here is the money turned and left. Didn't even look at me.
He did me a favor though cuz I know I am to the point where I can't stand him. I guess his life isn't all roses that he is letting on. I think it would suck to be him.
Re: On an upswing Plucky: I'm just happy to have gotten out of that situation. Two years ago, this week's mood swings would have me thinking I was imagining things and questioning my sanity. Now, I know it's a learned behavior that he's not interested in changing and it has nothing to do with me, really.
